This blog has become my journal. It’s become my safe space to share thoughts and much like Drake, (listen to Scorpion) writing has become my therapy. Sharing with you scares the shit out of me most of the time, but I always do it with a purpose behind it. So, if there’s no purpose, why would I share?
I’m no expert on dating – ask literally ANYONE I’ve ever come in contact with, but I have noticed one common denominator between myself and everyone else out there searching for love (or whatever else they think they need) – the fear of commitment.
Most of my life has been a constant battle with low self esteem. I've always been outgoing, strong and sassy, but underneath all of that, I have quietly struggled to accept myself for who I am in entirety.
After years of being single (I don’t count anything under a year to be an actual relationship) 9 months ago, I decided to adopt a new attitude towards dating. It’s called the “Zero Fucks” approach. It sounds bad, but here’s why it’s been working for me!
It’s been said that you never know how you will handle a life-altering event until it happens to you. Some people are very private, closed-off, and process everything internally, while others tell the whole world in hopes that it will help them cope with what’s actually happening. There is no right or wrong way.